I spent a day with ASEXUALS

14.01.2020
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I spent a day with asexuals to learn the truth about this often overlooked sexual orientation.
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Kommentteja
  • ⚠️ NOTE: when it was written that the A in LGBTQAI+ stands for “ally”, it was meant to reflect what some people have assumed to represent “allies”, while many have corrected to stand for “asexuals”. this was not intended to segregate asexuals away from the LGBTQAI+ community. ORIGINAL POST: come back next week for *I spent a day with AUTISTIC PEOPLE* -- thank you so much for supporting me and this series :) luv, anthony padildo ps: shoutout to everyone who has turned on notifications 🔔 and directly support me in continuing this series.

    AnthonyPadillaAnthonyPadillaVuosi sitten
    • was this demonitised?

      Super PerformanceSuper Performance16 päivää sitten
    • @Dreaminq WE ARE THE ALPHABET MAFIA MUAHAHAHAHAA

      Just Some Guy With Half a MustacheJust Some Guy With Half a Mustache28 päivää sitten
    • @LittleJ “has a lot of autism” I-

      Book ButterflyBook ButterflyUukausi sitten
    • You act like asexuals are aliens

      🖤Iris_Mxxn🖤🖤Iris_Mxxn🖤Uukausi sitten
    • Ooh thanks I was getting confused again on what the "a" in lgbtqia+ meant-

      Joe SupremacyJoe SupremacyUukausi sitten
  • I'm homoromantic asexual

    Sacrya StudiosSacrya Studios54 minuuttia sitten
  • If people want to be asexual that’s cool. Why is the intro so dramatic haha sexuality has nothing to do with personality. I hope everyone is happy and as long as no one is hurting themselves or others more power to you for knowing who you are - what you want abs what you don’t want !

    Melissa CastleMelissa Castle5 tuntia sitten
  • I have two children. Yes they are scary.

    hybrid angelhybrid angel8 tuntia sitten
  • 🍰 have some cake

    crêpefrippéecrêpefrippée12 tuntia sitten
  • I wish that guy's dad had the same thoughts about children as him he wouldn't be bere to talk that nonsense today

    songs forkidzsongs forkidz20 tuntia sitten
  • Uh how many times a day do you have to repair your roof...

    SteakChickenSteakChickenPäivä sitten
  • See for me, I found it out pretty recently that I’m asexual aromantic. I never knew there was a word for it, but all my life I was confused how anyone could really have a crush on anyone else, and I thought there was something wrong with me and pretended to like somebody. Whenever I watched a movie with anything even remotely suggestive, it made me pretty uncomfortable. I figured out that asexuality and aromanticism existed, and knew that was what I was. I came out to my parents around a month ago. But the thing is, although this isn’t true for me, asexuality means a lack of ATTRACTION, not a lack of desire to have sex. Which are two separate things. You can still be asexual and feel pleasure or want to have sex in my eyes.

    Lily FloydLily FloydPäivä sitten
  • When you get your own category lol

    Lynzie KLynzie KPäivä sitten
  • I love to learn about others perspectives. It's really great to hear their stories. Thank you!

    Jennifer WilliamsJennifer WilliamsPäivä sitten
  • Thank you for doing this video

    Menke MeijerMenke MeijerPäivä sitten
  • I Agree with these people I know because I'm also asexual there right

    shadow the headgehogshadow the headgehog2 päivää sitten
  • Lauren is definitely me

    Jacqueline FlathersJacqueline Flathers2 päivää sitten
  • Shubble!!!

    RyRy BeardenRyRy Bearden2 päivää sitten
  • Me: asexual, demiromantic who’s kinda trans too (how the h*ll should I come out lol)

    nine_ o.0nine_ o.02 päivää sitten
  • I’ve always said I’m asexual but idk what group of the asexual family I am in cuz it’s very confusing

    Donutdoze RPDonutdoze RP2 päivää sitten
  • I never even realized why sex is such a big deal anyway ah

    DEADMEATDEADMEAT2 päivää sitten
  • As an asexual it is like kissing a wall I don’t get it lmao I am bi-romantic asexual

    blah blah blahblah blah blah3 päivää sitten
  • I feel like nobody is good looking but I do have sexual arousel. idk why like its confusing

    x Kaito xx Kaito x3 päivää sitten
  • But, is aesexuality like an actual orientation or is it genuinely just ppl who don’t have sexual attraction? Is it like the gay thing where ppl realize they’re not the right gender?

    Caleb EvansCaleb Evans4 päivää sitten
    • @Addison Wolf yah I think ur right

      Caleb EvansCaleb Evans3 päivää sitten
    • Correct me if I'm wrong. Asexuality is a sexual orientation. Asexuality is a sexuality not a gender identity. Asexuality can be coupled with things like being biromantic, panromantic, trans, nonbinary, heteroromantic, etc.

      Addison WolfAddison Wolf3 päivää sitten
  • Dude good vid but stop with the flashing prompts on the screen im halfway through the vid and iv alredy counted 2 -.-

    frostedblacksnow nighttimefrostedblacksnow nighttime4 päivää sitten
    • 3

      frostedblacksnow nighttimefrostedblacksnow nighttime4 päivää sitten
  • 7:53 thats a dangerous mindset for him to have

    Hey thereHey there4 päivää sitten
  • It's just something made up.

    Natalie BoydNatalie Boyd4 päivää sitten
    • *fades out of existence*

      Cadpig the DalmatianCadpig the DalmatianPäivä sitten
    • It's not though...

      KirsikleKirsikle3 päivää sitten
  • I'm not asexual but very often I wish I were.. I'm so tired of this dirty human nature. I'm tired of people.. Including me. Why are people soo sinful and soo wicked? Just why? 😩 In my opinion, asexuals are better than others. And if you are one of them, please, don't listen to what people say. Don't change in order to be liked.. The right people will love you just as you are. 💜🙏☺️

    Ina IvanovaIna Ivanova5 päivää sitten
  • Interesting!

    r09tir09ti5 päivää sitten
  • The thumbnail looks like being asexual is some kind of curse, like Anthony is like :O

    LillianaLilliana5 päivää sitten
  • Im non binary 🙂✌️

    Katplays UwUKatplays UwU5 päivää sitten
    • We stan

      Addison WolfAddison Wolf3 päivää sitten
  • I had a gf back when I was in middle school and when I saw her again recently she told me she was asexual but she had many boyfriends and even had sex with them to make them happy and I was shocked, first because I didn't know about asexual people and second because if she was asexual how come she still had sexual relationships with them. I don't judge her, I am worried since shes one of the best people I have ever known.

    Eivan lmlEivan lml5 päivää sitten
  • The whole intro before introducing the people: *happens* Me:”fu-“ *questions asexuality* Me remembering: “wait this was the video that helped me realize I’m asexual” Thanks Anthony

    Snake LadySnake Lady6 päivää sitten
    • Me remembering: “wait this was the video that helped me realize I’m asexual” < Same!

      Addison WolfAddison Wolf3 päivää sitten
  • Ok is it just me or do people who aren't in the LGBTQIA+ community have a hard time saying it quickly. many of my friends are allies or part of the community and my ally friends cannot say it fast

    stephanie rachalstephanie rachal6 päivää sitten
    • This is just my experice I had and still have no intention of offending anybody.

      stephanie rachalstephanie rachal6 päivää sitten
  • LOVE TURNS TO HATE

    rudolf sanchezrudolf sanchez6 päivää sitten
    • Huh

      sleeppyysleeppyy5 päivää sitten
  • Ive been watching ace education videos all day cos i came across it in a queer video and i felt bad cos i didnt really know anything about asexuality other than stereotypes so if anyone wants to put some information in the comments id rly appreciate it!! :)))

    Ella xElla x6 päivää sitten
  • I like your golden Lava lamp idk why that's what I'm so obsessed with that

    Hazel SimsHazel Sims7 päivää sitten
  • asexuality's is an excuse to someone who can't get laid lmao

    Ethan GEthan G7 päivää sitten
    • @Ethan G Right. Of course it does.

      CrowspearsCrowspears5 päivää sitten
    • @sleeppyy that is not true unfortunately

      Ethan GEthan G5 päivää sitten
    • @Crowspears makes total sense

      Ethan GEthan G5 päivää sitten
    • I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if someone used being ace as an excuse to not get laid by you.

      sleeppyysleeppyy5 päivää sitten
    • Pretty sure theres lots of people who said “I bet I can stop you from being ace” or stuff like that to ace people.

      sleeppyysleeppyy5 päivää sitten
  • You should spend a day with Aromantics.

    Really Cool CatReally Cool Cat7 päivää sitten
  • Needed this. Love you work

    Sarah UpsideDownSarah UpsideDown7 päivää sitten
  • 0:17 idk y but i just found this sign hilarious my humour need s fixing

    Clearly ConfusedClearly Confused8 päivää sitten
  • I don't need love all I need was youtube

    LPOgamer from myanmarLPOgamer from myanmar8 päivää sitten
  • I thought I was broken. Then I researched it and found I was ace. My husband says I just need more smex. I feel guilty for being this way and bad for him.

    Rainbow SengiRainbow Sengi8 päivää sitten
  • i’m pansexual and probably aromantic so this is very foreign to me lol

    Anabel GarciaAnabel Garcia8 päivää sitten
  • i have no idea what i am but im grateful for this representation it makes me feel less pressured to be attracted to ppl

    marymary8 päivää sitten
  • As an asexual who wants kids, I feel so confused 😂

    Kezia KirtlandKezia Kirtland8 päivää sitten
    • Fostering?

      Addison WolfAddison Wolf3 päivää sitten
    • Hmm, well maybe you can adopt? You probably already considered that tho, so sorry

      sleeppyysleeppyy5 päivää sitten
  • I don’t know if I’m asexual or I just hate myself too much.

    M LM L9 päivää sitten
  • When the first person he talks to is called Lauren and you have the same name and are also Ace O-O

    Snazzy Dogs1Snazzy Dogs19 päivää sitten
  • Can bisexual become asexual

    lay limelay lime10 päivää sitten
    • yea

      Fred RheaumerFred Rheaumer8 päivää sitten
    • Biromantic asexual

      LululegendeLululegende9 päivää sitten
  • As a demisexual bi I love this video

    charlotteandservicedogbellacharlotteandservicedogbella10 päivää sitten
  • This video might make zero dollars but makes all the sense👍

    The Capri KidThe Capri Kid10 päivää sitten
  • This video made me kiss the wall to know how it feels like

    Biche TordueBiche Tordue10 päivää sitten
  • Aquarius clearly are detached emotionally, known fact, just saying....

    MidnightGoddess 2222MidnightGoddess 222210 päivää sitten
  • A question for the Aces: Is it possible for someone to become asexual after being very sexually driven most of their life?

    Natalie WomackNatalie Womack11 päivää sitten
    • @Fred Rheaumer So you didn't find anyone sexualy attractive, only beautiful like a rose ore a beautiful picture but without any attraction? Becouse you can have a low sex drive and feel sexualy attraction. But you can not become asexual like you can't become homosexual out of nowhere.

      CaryCaryPäivä sitten
    • @Cary well, I actually do know what asexuality means, and I havent experienced sexual attraction in months.

      Fred RheaumerFred RheaumerPäivä sitten
    • @Fred Rheaumer I think you don't know what asexuality means. Asexuality has nothing to do with the srx drive only with the lack of sexual attraction.

      CaryCary6 päivää sitten
    • yes. as an asexual, I used to be very sexually driven, but due to the pandemic, not being able to talk to friends, and countless other factors, I became severely depressed. This caused my sex drive, happiness, and overall well being to plummet.

      Fred RheaumerFred Rheaumer8 päivää sitten
  • Very very interesting video! Thanks =)

    yaniina copdropsyaniina copdrops11 päivää sitten
  • I spent a day with aromatics Pls do this tho~

    A JJA JJ12 päivää sitten
  • This may sounds stupid but... If ever an Asexual person met someone who somehow made them feel sexual yet only that person she/he experienced that kind of feeling. Is the that person still considered Asexual ?

    Chris SaikoChris Saiko12 päivää sitten
    • @JustAnotherAsexual No. Drmisexuality mran tgat someone only experience sexual attraction toward people they gave a strong emotional bond with that ehat you lean is grayasexuality.

      CaryCary6 päivää sitten
    • @JustAnotherAsexual oh so that's what demisexual means(I also just goggled it now). That sounds quite cute I see.

      Chris SaikoChris Saiko11 päivää sitten
    • If they would feel more comfortable with that label then yes, but that’s also referred to as demisexual. It’s on the asexual spectrum, and means (I think) attraction to a few people. It’s really how they want to label themself though.

      JustAnotherAsexualJustAnotherAsexual11 päivää sitten
    • I think that might be Demisexual or greysexual, I might be wrong

      ClewnClewn12 päivää sitten
  • "subscribe or I'm gonna bake you a cake"

    AMB BlackBeeAMB BlackBee12 päivää sitten
  • OMG SHUBBLE !!

    cowbean coffee bean / michelle hucowbean coffee bean / michelle hu12 päivää sitten
  • What are your opinions on asking questions makes you feel good no matter how offensive it might seem, as in if someone asks questions about your sexuality how does it make you feel, as if they had never heard of the sexuality

    Sean DavisonSean Davison13 päivää sitten
    • I’m fine with people asking me questions as long as they aren’t condescending/rude or too personal.

      KirsikleKirsikle12 päivää sitten
  • It's kinda sad how often people pretend like we're "broken", "need to be fixed", or that we'll "get over it". I'm really glad asexuality is slowly becoming more recognized. We aren't broken. We aren't something to be fixed. We're human.

    Stellar StarrsStellar Starrs13 päivää sitten
    • Yes true!

      Tilli frog the animatorTilli frog the animator13 päivää sitten
  • i just thought nobody was attractive

    NeptxneNeptxne13 päivää sitten
  • Ok, so I thought that I was bisexual, which changed to biromantic and biromantic greysexual and so on. Recently I thought I was Demibiromantic which could also be called biromantic Demiromantic which is being Romantically attracted to male and female but only feeling romantic attraction after having a strong emotional bond with them. Then I thought I was biromantic demisexual which is I’m romantically attracted to male and female but only feel sexual attraction to people after having a strong emotional bond with them. That feels more comfortable with me but I also feel that I might actually be lithosexual if that’s how you say it which is feeling sexual attraction but when I actually get to cuddle with some or something I don’t feel it anymore. Some one please help me could I some how be a biromantic demisexual lithosexua? Or just a biromantic lithosexual.

    Boke シBoke シ13 päivää sitten
  • when will Iridociclytisexuality be a valid gender????!?!?!😩😩😩😩😩😩

    Varga GyörkVarga Györk13 päivää sitten
    • Sexuality has nothing to do with gender.

      CaryCary6 päivää sitten
  • That was so enjoyable and fun to watch and also very comforting I can relate to all of them

    Aya AlyAya Aly13 päivää sitten
  • The idea that heterosexual allies belong in the lgbt(qia+) community, but asexual people DONT is mind boggling. Also the idea that discrimination is a sport (oppression olympics) that you have to suffer xyz in order to belong, insanely shitty. Trans people experience types of oppression that cis gay people don’t, they still both belong in the same community. Asexual people people still face medical or mental diagnosis ( same as how homosexuality was diagnosed as a disorder) and corrective rape (the act of sexual assault as a means to “correct” a sexuality). The fact of the matter that asexual people do not experience life as cisgender heterosexual people do, and anyone who tries to say asexuality doesn’t belong in the lgbt+ community are also the types of people who would next say that trans people don’t, then bisexuals, hell at one point lesbians where under fire. It is literally a “first they came for” situation, and a tactic used by terfs to separate and break up the community.

    FallenemikoFallenemiko14 päivää sitten
  • Soon LGBTQ+ will be: LQBTQAASDWERQSDSFAFQFAZSXCFFQFQSDGFG+

    The Chair ManThe Chair Man14 päivää sitten
    • @Tilli frog the animator Since most of them will yell at you if you don't get the pronouns right like I don't remember what zodisexual is chill

      The Chair ManThe Chair Man6 päivää sitten
    • Why not?

      CaryCary6 päivää sitten
    • *Sigh* these people sometimes... why do you care anyways?

      Tilli frog the animatorTilli frog the animator13 päivää sitten
  • I thought the A in LGBTQIA+ was Asexual. Am I wrong

    Sleepy PersonSleepy Person14 päivää sitten
    • @Tilli frog the animator lmaooo

      tubboattubboat13 päivää sitten
    • @tubboat i thought that it it stands for all-you-can-eat? No? (This is a joke btw lol!)

      Tilli frog the animatorTilli frog the animator13 päivää sitten
    • nono you’re correct- but the a can also stand for aromantic and agender ฅ^•ﻌ•^ฅ

      tubboattubboat14 päivää sitten
  • I have 2 ace friends and they r da best (I'm pan genderfluid btw)

    *ComicSansMS*ComicSansMS14 päivää sitten
  • I'm happy for Shelby!! I'm glad she was able to come out :D

    Phoenix StaleyPhoenix Staley15 päivää sitten
  • Asexual is spong Nonsexual

    BruhmazingBruhmazing15 päivää sitten
  • I figured out last week, that after 12 years of a very happy, fulfilling and stable marriage that BOTH my husband and I are grey-sexual. We realised very early on in our relationship that our attitude towards sex is the same, but very different to other people's experience thereof. For us, love and sex are very far removed from each other, not even part of the same sentence or concept. We have sex about once a month and we call it a systems check. You know, clear out the pipes and make sure nothing has grown shut or fallen off. It probably lasts all of 5 minutes and we immediately return to what we were doing beforehand, like vaccuuming and woodwork. There is absolutely no cuddling afterwards because for us it is a physiological need which needs fulfilling. If you're hungry, you eat. If you're thirsty, you drink. If the hormones start knocking, you have sex. I mean, who writes an ode of love to their steak or glass of water after consuming it?? :D

    katzentatzenkatzentatzen15 päivää sitten
  • ...and i just realised with this interview that I am demisexual o.o I never thought there would be a definition and couldnt really explain it. thank you Anthony for this interview !!!

    Riri DeeRiri Dee15 päivää sitten
  • if we think about it: sex is something that connects us with our "animal" and "primitive" part so what if ace people are just a step ahead? *wink wink * (also please understand that this is a joke)

    Alejandra RAlejandra R15 päivää sitten
  • asexuals dont exist period

    casey krausecasey krause15 päivää sitten
    • Ew, aphobe.

      CrowspearsCrowspears5 päivää sitten
    • Pretty sure I exist idk tho still trying to figure out if I’m real or if this is all a simulation

      JustAnotherAsexualJustAnotherAsexual11 päivää sitten
    • *dissapears

      Redstonekid!Redstonekid!12 päivää sitten
    • OH NO I’M VANISHING HELP!!!!!

      Shugari SoulShugari Soul12 päivää sitten
    • Well shit guess i'll die

      Flashplayer420Flashplayer42013 päivää sitten
  • this is just a question for asexuals out of curiosity, do you often look for other people who are asexual to date or be in a relationship with or do you look for people who arn't or does it not matter or does it differ for different people

    shaggy_porpioseshaggy_porpiose15 päivää sitten
    • It depends on the person.

      KirsikleKirsikle12 päivää sitten
  • "Wondrous"?? I have so many thoughts on this, I don't know where to begin. If it is the desire of the ruling elite to reduce the global population, all they have to do is propagate this mindset. I seriously cringe to think of where the human race will be in the next 100 years. All I can say to these people is; when you reach my age and older, and your body starts to fail, please be thankful to all the other people who raised the children who will grow up and be your caregivers. However, given current social dynamics, even those will be few and far between. Good luck, future!

    J AshtonJ Ashton16 päivää sitten
    • Some people just don’t feel attraction. Personally I’ve lived 16 years and not once felt romantic or sexual attraction (which most people do by 16 now). I’m pretty sure if it was a choice or anything I would’ve chosen to * not* spend my childhood/ teenage years feeling completely broken. And We’ll all be dead in 100 years so why do worry about something you’ll never actually have to experience. I’d be best if you 1. Educated yourself or 2, data yes quiet on things you don’t understand

      JustAnotherAsexualJustAnotherAsexual11 päivää sitten
    • It's not these people fault. It's not an choice. They are born this way, and cannot control whether they have sexual urges or not. I hope this helps your understanding of the next generation, and people to come💙

      Addison BowerAddison Bower14 päivää sitten
  • i have felt this way my whole life when pubrity happened everyone was talking about sex having or watching it and i just sat there not understanding why it mattered

    mercedes mairsmercedes mairs16 päivää sitten
  • OH MY GOd the way i ended up figuring out i was aro is that cheating didn’t bother me.

    Theo likes dinosaursTheo likes dinosaurs17 päivää sitten
  • As a freysexual (ace spectrum, think demisexual but reversed), I feel like an outsider in both the ace and allo community and it sucks

    sleepycryptid -send help-sleepycryptid -send help-17 päivää sitten
    • @casey krause honestly at times i feel like the only aroace too but hi you’re not alone

      JustAnotherAsexualJustAnotherAsexual11 päivää sitten
    • and i feel like im the only aro ace in the world Lol

      casey krausecasey krause15 päivää sitten
  • 5:38 👁️👄👁️ this video is recommended to me by FIboth

    Ritesh Kr. PandaRitesh Kr. Panda17 päivää sitten
  • still not sure if I'm ace or if I'm anxious about relationships and intimacy so I'm using it as an easy out on being vulnerable

    wkfjskfjskfbsjdkswkfjskfjskfbsjdks17 päivää sitten
    • I'm ace :)

      casey krausecasey krause15 päivää sitten
  • THANK U MAN FINELY SOMEONE EGNOLEGED US

    shara davingeshara davinge17 päivää sitten
  • just a note: you can be asexual and still like people... i dont feel like enough people realize this

    :D:D18 päivää sitten
  • Hello I'm a PROUD Asexual Biromantic over here

    Jack SnowJack Snow18 päivää sitten
    • @casey krause Yes. I love being Ace. Thoughts on a romantic date? I personally love the idea romantic dates with people regardless if they are Non-Binary, Female or Male (preferably Female or Non-Binary however Males I also like)

      Jack SnowJack Snow15 päivää sitten
    • and I'm a proud aro ace too, love ya my brother :)

      casey krausecasey krause15 päivää sitten
  • I'm 21 year old female and I have this one problem. Almost 80% of my friends are guys, because I like to play videogames, I'm little bit different and I just get along with them. Problem is that I'm asexual and most of those boys are interested in me ''that way'' you know. And I hate to brake it to them always by saying that ''I'm not interested'', ''I don't feel like you do'', ''I don't want to have sex'' and so on -_- I think I can have relationship that doesn't include having sex, but doesn't seem to happen soon xD But I'm fine living by myself. But it's just wierd to think that I'm asexual and I have a line of men who would like to get in the bed with me xD And I HATE it when some one says...''oh, you just havn't found the right one''

    Koston EnkeliKoston Enkeli18 päivää sitten
    • @Cactus Danimator thank you for sharing😊I have made my point very clear to those men, only one is right now that need to understand that there is no going past friendzone. But I hope I can make my point to him clear as possible. Because if he can’t accept this then he is not my friend.

      Koston EnkeliKoston Enkeli17 päivää sitten
    • As a man who is aromantic asexual, I have probably had a similar problem since a lot of my friends are women. And one or two of them have probably tried to come onto me on occasion. In my eyes I see them on an equal level to men. Since I am not attracted to either sex I can treat them both equally. My friends are my friends not because of what they are, but who they are. In your case I'd say stick to your guns whatever they may be. Keep having casual fun on video games with all your friends. And if they can't accept you for who you are, then that's their loss not yours. And if these men keep trying to come onto you instead of just treating you like a friend then they are the ones who need to rethink themselves.

      Cactus DanimatorCactus Danimator17 päivää sitten
  • Shelbyyy

    Neko Bella DrownedNeko Bella Drowned18 päivää sitten
  • Would you possibly do a video on the aromantic spectrum??

    Kylee HillKylee Hill18 päivää sitten
  • Wow Shelby seems like a chill, nice person! I wanna be friends with her

    GwoudKaGwoudKa19 päivää sitten
  • This aromantic asexual thanks you for acknowledging asexual people and giving us a platform 😄🖤♠️🤍💜

    Edd VCREdd VCR19 päivää sitten
  • I felt this video so much~

    {Love Potion}{Love Potion}19 päivää sitten
  • Normally I’m not annoyed by subliminal messaging but this is just over the top. Like every 10 seconds there is a subliminal message and it’s so uncomfortable, even if they are harmless.

    AudreyAudrey19 päivää sitten
    • @JustAnotherAsexual 4:25 “get it together fellas” - 4:53 “not very fun” - 5:12 “no emotion” - 5:31 “Andrew got unintentional game.” - 8:05 “don’t gaslight don’t gaslight don’t gaslight” - 9:13 “It Is!!!” - 9:20 *image* - 9:28 *image* There are more throughout the rest of the video but I got lazy.

      AudreyAudrey11 päivää sitten
    • @Audrey but what are these subliminal messages saying lmao

      JustAnotherAsexualJustAnotherAsexual11 päivää sitten
    • @Shugari Soul okay so subliminal messaging is when text or an image in flicked onto the screen for only a single frame. Even if you can’t physically read it, quite often your subconscious picks up on what it says. It was used in old movie theaters as an advertisement tactic for beverages and was so effective it was deemed illegal. This video contains a TON of subliminal messaging so every time you see the screen flicker pay attention or go back and pause. Even though the messages they say are not bad in any way it’s just annoying.

      AudreyAudrey12 päivää sitten
    • What the hell are you talking about?

      Shugari SoulShugari Soul12 päivää sitten
  • This video made me feel like an alien. Assuming that this is from trauma, or isn’t real, or asking if we can really survive without sex is so rude, in my opinion. It’s mildly disrespectful. Quit treating us like it’s off, or weird. Just treat us like normal people. That’s all we want,

    • F R O G G Y •• F R O G G Y •19 päivää sitten
    • I thought that's what he did by chatting to us like we are the humans we are and raising awareness so people don't view us as alien, might be wrong, but I appreciate Anthony helping people understand our community

      ClewnClewn12 päivää sitten
  • Why do we need that much tags and don't let people do whatever they like without the need of classifying them?

    PATRICK & JORDI BRAVOPATRICK & JORDI BRAVO20 päivää sitten
  • “I spent the day with asexuals”....what’s the point of this? We’re just the same as everyone else we just don’t feel sexual attraction

    OliverOliver20 päivää sitten
    • it’s just to raise awareness and help others understand a bit more about what it is

      Jesus ReincarnatedJesus Reincarnated15 päivää sitten
    • It helps others find out about asexuality, this video (although I later on found out I was abro and not ace) helped me feel more comftorble with myself

      felixfelix17 päivää sitten
    • He does videos like these with all kinds of different groups/people.

      KirsikleKirsikle20 päivää sitten
  • i have many labels and a lot of people get confused. so im nonbinary, pansexual, asexual and demiromantic. I hate the thought of doing anything remotely sexual, and i can only feel romantic attraction if i have a strong bond with someone. although i love the thought and feeling of being in love and in a relationship. NOT ALL ASEXUALS HATE ROMANTIC THINGS AS WELL AS SEXUAL THINGS, ITS A SPECTRUM AND EVERYONE VARIES. (most people, not all, who don't experience romantic OR sexual attraction identify as aromantic.) ty for reading my rant :)

    saige harrisonsaige harrison21 päivä sitten
  • People: so...are you asexual? Me: ehh sort of... Then: then what are you? When you are not asexual Me: Aegosexual.. Them: wtf is that?! Are you finding new sexuality? Because you want attention?! Me:...I- that’s a different asexual sexuality... Them: that’s not real. (Sorry for my bad Englisch, it’s not my first language😅)

    Tired ArtistTired Artist21 päivä sitten
  • I wish it was more commonly known that asexual people can feel aroused and have sex. They simply dont feel sexual attraction

    abbyabby22 päivää sitten
  • I realized I was gray-ace 2 years ago when intercourse felt like doing laundry: I hardly ever want to but sometimes it gets done. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    Beebsie LikespieBeebsie Likespie22 päivää sitten
  • When I was in high school I thought for the longest that I was asexual, I’ve come to realize that I’m actually demisexual and it’s been a relief to find out what I am instead of feeling as if there was something wrong.

    sleepy ishsleepy ish22 päivää sitten
    • you're chilling. You're just ace until you find that specific person.

      SophiaSophia21 päivä sitten
  • O shit o cry in this video, in my contry sexuality is a big thing so me beeing asexual I just felt broken, I want I relationship but I know it will be hard because many people want sex in a relationship, this video just make me realise that im ok and im validate and maybe someday I will find someone who loves me just the way I am💜

    Vale PiedrahitaVale Piedrahita22 päivää sitten
  • Asexuality as well as Aromanticsm is a Spectrum. You are all valid!

    Maleeka AbbasMaleeka Abbas22 päivää sitten
  • oh I also spend time with a sexual person. My crush...

    LeoBrickStudiosLeoBrickStudios22 päivää sitten
  • I'm under the ace umbrella so I sometimes refer to myself as "ace". I'm an Aceflux

    ємρяєѕѕ αвιgαιlємρяєѕѕ αвιgαιl22 päivää sitten
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